Muaj lwm yam dab tsi tshwm sim?
Thaum nug tias vim li cas tus menyuam mos liab pw tsis tsaug zog thaum hmo ntuj, nws muaj qee cov lus teb:
- txoj hnyuv quav;
- cov sijhawm tsis muaj qhov "kev vam meej thiab kev pw tsaug zog" hauv tus menyuam;
- tus me nyuam tsis noj thiab tsim los ntawm kev tshaib kev nqhis;
- tus me nyuam muaj ntaub qhwv ntaub qhwv los yog diaper;
- nyob rau hauv chav nyob qhov twg crumbs pw tsaug zog, kub los yog txias.
Cov no yog vim li cas tseem ceeb, piv txwv li, ib tus menyuam mosliab uas tsis tau pw tsaug zog thaum tsaus ntuj, xav kom nws mloog. Thiab yog tias thawj qhov laj thawj ua rau cov niam txiv tsuas tos kom lub nraub qaum yuav tsum tsis txhob ua mob rau ntawm qhov sib txawv ntawm cov kab txi ntau los ntawm tsam plab thiab colic, lwm yam yog vim li cas thiaj li raug muab tshem tawm tau los ntawm kev txhim kho tsoom fwv thiab kev noj zaub mov ntawm tus menyuam. Tsis tas li ntawd, tsis txhob hnov qab txog kev silence, uas yog qhov tsim nyog rau ib tug crumb rau ib tug pw ntsiag to nyob ntsiag to.
Yog tias peb xav tias qhov teeb meem ntawm yog vim li cas ib tug me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog ib nrab tsis pw thaum hmo ntuj, ces cov kev xav ntawm lub siab xav tuaj rau hauv paus:
- Muaj siab nrog pw nrog niam txiv yog tias tus me nyuam tau siv rau qhov no .
- Tsis muaj kev ua si, tshwj xeeb yog thaum qhib cua.
- Kev xav siab.
Qhov no yog qhov teeb meem tshwm sim heev, thiab nws tshwm sim sai li sai tau thaum tus me nyuam tsim thaum nws lub txaj pw. Tsis siv mus pw tsaug zog, nws xav tias nws insecurity.
Qhov no yog ib qho ntawm cov txheej xwm seb vim li cas ib tus me nyuam tsis xav pw thaum tsaus ntuj, ntev ntev nws tsis tsaug zog los yog sawv kev ua si. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau cov me nyuam taug kev heev, kawm txog ntiaj teb nyob ib puag ncig lawv thiab siv lawv lub zog thiab lub zog.
Lub hlwb ntawm ib tug me nyuam yaus hauv lub hnub nyoog no tseem tsis tau paub tab. Kev tsiv, kev sib cav hauv tsev, cov qhua tuaj yeem, ntshai los yog, zoo siab heev, ua rau muaj kev zoo siab, tuaj yeem ua rau qhov tseeb tias tus me nyuam pw ntau ntau hmo.
Yog li, qhov xaus, kuv xav nco ntsoov tias yog vim li cas tus menyuam tsis pw thaum hmo ntuj, los qhia tias nws tsis yooj yim. Thiab yog tias lawv tsis muaj feem xyuam rau kev noj qab haus huv, ces tshem tawm lawv, koj tuaj yeem tau txais kev ywm thiab kev pw tsaug zog rau tag nrho cov neeg hauv tsev neeg.