Thaum tos tus me nyuam, txhua tsev neeg cia siab rau yug tus me nyuam noj qab haus huv, saib tag nrho cov ntawv sau cov kws kho mob thiab tu tus me nyuam hauv niam lub plab. Hmoov tsis, tag nrho cov tau pathologies ntawm tus me nyuam thaum lub sij hawm cev xeeb tub ntawm cov poj niam kws kho mob tsis tau txiav txim siab los txiav txim siab, nrog rau kev muaj lub rooj sib hais. Tab sis, los txiav txim siab seb koj tus me nyuam puas hnov, cov kws txawj yuav txhais tau tias yog hnub thib ob ntawm lub neej ntais. Thiab yog tias koj ntseeg tias cov kev kuaj xyuas ntawm niam, qhov no yog lub sijhawm zoo rau lawv. Piv txwv, thaum lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv Russia rau 1000 zaus feem ntau ntawm cov me nyuam mos muaj ib tug me nyuam muaj qhov tsis hnov lus. Yog tias tus me nyuam mos muaj qhov tshwj xeeb tshwm sim hauv tsev neeg, ces, tag nrho txhua yam, kev noj qab nyob zoo thiab tag nrho yav tom ntej ntawm tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv ob txhais tes ntawm nws niam nws txiv.
Kuv tsuas xav paub tias qhov kev cob qhia ntawm cov menyuam yaus muaj qhov tsis hnov lus zoo yog qhov zoo, yog tias txoj kev xaiv raug xaiv, cov kws kho mob, cov kws qhia, thiab cov kws kho mob hais lus yuav pab tau rau niam thiab txiv.
Cov yam ntxwv ntawm cov me nyuam uas hnov lus tsis zoo
Raws li txoj cai, xws li cov menyuam yaus raug muab faib rau cov neeg tsis hnov lus thiab lag ntseg neeg feem ntau. Ob pawg neeg muaj teeb meem nrog kev hais lus, uas cuam tshuam ncaj qha rau kev xav, nco thiab kev xav ntawm cov me nyuam. Yog li, qhov kev nce qib ntawm cov me nyuam nrog kev hnov lus tshwm sim rau ntau dua los ntawm kev pom, lub cev, lub zog, thiab cov cwj pwm tactile.
Muaj peev xwm kawm
Feem ntau, cov me nyuam tsis hnov lus tsis zoo kuj yog tag nrho cov neeg hauv zej zog, lawv xav tau sij hawm me ntsis ntxiv, nrog rau kev pab cuam ntawm niam txiv thiab cov xib fwb hauv txoj kev kawm. Yog li ntawd, txoj kev kawm ntawm cov menyuam yaus uas hnov lus tsis zoo, raws li txoj cai, tau txais ib tus zuj zus. Thawj thiab thawj, lawv xav tau ib qho kev hais lus, uas yog tau ua tiav raws li cov lus "ntsej muag nyeem".
Psychology ntawm cov menyuam yaus nrog kev hnov lus tsis zoo
Cov menyuam noj qab nyob zoo kawm txog lub ntiaj teb los ntawm kev sib txuas lus nrog lawv cov phooj ywg, niam txiv thiab lwm tus neeg, cov me nyuam tsis hnov lus zoo nyob hauv no, yog li ntawd lawv pheej thim thiab txawm txhoj puab heev. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau saib xyuas txog qhov no ntawm lawv tus menyuam txoj kev loj hlob: ua kom tiav tus menyuam qhov tsis muaj kev sib txuas lus, los ua kom hnov lus thiab hais lus, kom tom qab ntawd tus menyuam yuav sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg tsis ntshai tsam kev tsis to taub.
Tsuas yog, cov me nyuam tsis hnov lus zoo muaj ntau tus yam ntxwv: nws yog qhov qeeb kawg ntawm kev hais lus, thiab tsis muaj peev xwm siv cov kev paub theoretical hauv kev xyaum, thiab tsis muaj kev xav tsis zoo. Tiam sis cov niam txiv uas muaj kev hlub thiab txawj ntse yuav pab tus me nyuam kom kov yeej txhua yam kev nyuaj siab: cov chav kawm, kev saib xyuas thiab kev hlub ntawm cov neeg uas lawv hlub tau ua tau txuj ci tseem ceeb. Tsuas yog raws li cov teeb meem no, kev sib haum xeeb, yog li tsim nyog rau cov me nyuam tsis hnov lus, yuav muaj kev vam meej.