Peb txhua tus los ntawm kev yau hlub menyuam yaus, ntau qhov kev hlub no tau pauv mus rau neeg laus, vim hais tias lawv muaj kev ntseeg txog qhov txuj ci tseem ceeb, thaum qhov zoo ua qhov phem. Tab sis thaum koj loj hlob tuaj, cov me nyuam kuj muaj lwm cov kev xav ntau tshaj: ntshai, kho siab, tu siab, npau taws. Nws tshwm sim hais tias qhov xwm txheej ntawm lawv tshwm sim tsis yog to taub los ntawm ob niam txiv los yog cov me nyuam lawv tus kheej. Hauv qhov no, psychologists pom zoo sim ua ib ntawm txoj kev kho cov txuj ci - kev kho taleas rau cov menyuam yaus. Ib qho zoo ntawm kev cuam tshuam rau ntawm kev puas hlwb ntawm tus menyuam yog tias leej niam muaj peev xwm pab tau tus menyuam ntawm nws tus kheej, nrog rau txoj kev kho tev txog kev daws cov teeb meem menyuam yaus siv tau los ntawm kev yug me nyuam.
Kawm mus hais lus
Cov menyuam uas muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws tuaj yeem muaj teeb meem hais lus hais vim tsis hnov qab, xav, nco. Ntau tus kws kho mob hais txog kev siv cov khoom zoo nkauj thiab kev kho kev hais lus, vim hais tias qhov tseeb ntawm kev hais lus yog nyob ntawm ntau yam. Kev pabcuam menyuam yaus ua kom muaj kev xav ntau, muaj peev xwm xav thiab lwm tus, koj yuav tuaj yeem txo cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev kawm suab. Tus me nyuam yuav xav tau sai dua thiab nws zoo siab dua los kawm cov khoom uas tau qhia.
Tshem cov teeb meem
Txawm li ntawd los, txoj hauj lwm tseem ceeb ntawm txoj kev kho mob ncaj ncees yog kho qhov teeb meem ntawm lub hlwb thiab kev xav ntawm tus me nyuam, nws tus cwj pwm, kom tshem kev ntshai thiab phobias. Nws tsis yog tias tsis yog vim tias thaum ub cov neeg siv cov lus piav qhia txog kev ua neej, cov menyuam yaus to taub thiab paub qhov tseem ceeb sai, qhov no yog vim li cas kev siv cov kev kho kom haum yog qhov tseem ceeb rau kev loj hlob ntawm tus menyuam.
Peb compose ib tug fairy taleas
Thaum thawj theem, cov niam txiv xav tau kev pab ntawm ib tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb, nws yuav pab tsim cov dab neeg nws tus kheej - lub hauv paus ntawm qhov kev kho mob zoo nkauj. Kev sau ntawv, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom ua raws li cov lus txib:
- xaiv tus cwj pwm tseem ceeb - nws yuav tsum zoo ib yam li koj tus me nyuam: ua cim, xav, ua yeeb yam;
- piav txog txoj kev ua neej ntawm tus cwj pwm thiaj li hais tias tus me nyuam yaus nkag siab tias lawv muaj ntau yam hauv ntau;
- qhia txog qhov teeb meem ntawm tus hero los yog qhov teeb meem uas ua rau koj tus me nyuam ntshai;
- thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws - qhia ob peb qhov chaw ntawm qhov teeb meem tsis yooj yim, xaiv qhov yog, thiab, tseem ceeb, piav qhia txog tus hero uas pab daws qhov teeb meem;
- nyob rau hauv xaus, tus ua cim yuav tsum to taub tias nws ua tsis ncaj ncees lawm, thiab dab tsi tus cwj pwm yuav hloov txhua yam rau qhov zoo dua.
Siv cov kev kho kom zoo nkauj hauv kev ua haujlwm nrog menyuam yaus, koj tuaj yeem koom nrog tus menyuam hauv kev ua yeeb yaj kiab. Cia tus me nyuam nws tus kheej qhia ntau txoj kev los daws qhov teeb meem ntawm tus hero thiab pab koj xaiv qhov yog. Qhov no yuav ua rau koj nkag siab qhov teeb meem ntawm koj lub dag zog, thiab lub sijhawm los kho qhov teeb meem, kom raug tshem tawm kev ntshai, phobias, tsiv siab, thiab qhov no tsis yog lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm txoj kev kho qhov ncauj lus! Nyob rau hauv txoj kev npaj, niam txiv muaj peev xwm muaj qee yam teeb meem nrog kev sau zaj dab neeg, yog li nws yog qhov tseem ceeb heev rau theem pib nyeem ntawv tshwj xeeb, los yog nrhiav kev pab los ntawm ib tug kws kho kev puas siab ntsws uas yuav muaj kev piv txwv ntawm cov lus qhia txog kev ncaj ncees rau kev siv tshuaj yeeb dawb.
Piav piv txwv li suab paj nruag
Ib zaug thaum lub sij hawm muaj me ntsis me nyuam miv Vasya. Nws muaj ib leej niam uas hlub nws heev, thiab nws kuj hlub nws. Tus me nyuam tau zoo siab, ua si txhua hnub, thiab yav tsaus ntuj hais rau kuv niam tias nws tsis mus pw. Yog li ntawd, nws txawm khiav thiab dhia txhua hmo, thiab thaum sawv ntxov nws tau nkees thiab mus pw. Thiab yav tav su nws tus phooj ywg tus menyuam tau muaj hnub yug, uas tau caw txhua tus phooj ywg tau caw tuaj. Tab sis tus Vasxias me nyuam yaus tsis mus rau ntawd, txij thaum nws pw tsaug zog. Thiab thaum kuv sawv hauv qhov tsaus ntuj, kuv ntxhov siab heev. Txij thaum ntawd los, nws tau txiav txim siab ua raws li nws niam thiab mus pw.
Cov txiaj ntsig ntawm ib tug fairy taleas
Lub sijhawm rau txoj kev kho kev tsim txuj ci no muaj ntau: nrog kev pab ntawm nws koj tuaj yeem pab tsis tau rau tus menyuam xwb, tabsis kuj yog tus neeg laus. Sau tau, peb tuaj yeem hais tias ntxiv rau kev sib koom kev paub, lub ntsiab lus ntawm lub neej, kev nkag siab "qhov zoo thiab qhov phem,
Kuv xav nco ntsoov tias ua ntej koj pib "kev kho mob" nrog ib tug fairy taleas, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau kev nkag siab tias koj tus me me ib txwm tsis tseeb hauv ntiaj teb no txawv ntawm kev muaj tiag. Nco ntsoov coj tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam. Thov kev pabcuam kev ncaj ncees rau kev loj hlob ntawm lawv cov menyuam, niamtxiv ua rau nws zoo siab thiab noj qab nyob zoo tom ntej. Qhov txheej txheem no yuav pab koj tus me nyuam kom muaj kev ntseeg siab rau cov neeg laus, thiab koj txoj kev hlub thiab kev ua siab zoo yuav tsim kev ua tiag tiag!