Muaj tseeb koj tau pom dua ntawm cov ntaub ntawv hu ua "NLP for Dummies" los yog "Secrets of NLP", nrog rau lwm tus neeg uas tau hais txog peb cov ntawv sau txog cov kab lus saum lub hau. Cov kws sau ntawv ntawm cov phau ntawv cog lus yuav ua rau txhua tus txawj nyeem ntawv txawj ntse, qhia lawv kom pauv txhua yam teeb meem hauv lawv cov kev coj. Nws yog nthuav, yog nws muaj tseeb tias NLP cov tswv yim yog li ntawd miraculous los yog nws yog dav dav advertised dummy?
NLP cov cuab yeej hauv lub neej
Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) yog ib lub tswv yim ntawm ntau txoj kev thiab cov tswv yim uas daws teeb meem ntau yam. Qhov kev taw qhia hauv kev xav txog kev xav li no yog ib qho tshiab, ib qho tseem hais tau tias nws tab tom xyaum, tab sis nws twb muaj pov thawj zoo heev lawm. NLP cov tswv yim siv tau rau kev siv hlwb thiab kev txhim kho txoj haujlwm ntawm tus kheej txoj kev sib txuas lus. Pib, cov technologies tau siv los pab lwm tus neeg, thiab tsuas yog tom qab ntawd lawv tau siv hauv kev tshaj tawm, kom muag khoom. Hauv kev xyaum, cov tswv yim NLP nram no siv dav dav:
- Kev hloov kev ntseeg. Ib qho ntawm cov cai ntawm NLP yog tias nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tau ua txhua yam teeb meem (kev xav, kev xav) txog txhua qhov teeb meem. Tiam sis peb tsis ua raws li txoj cai no thiab them nqi rau qhov tsis zoo, vim li ntawd, peb tau txais lub tswv yim tias tsis muaj ib txoj hauv kev tawm ntawm qhov teeb meem no. Thiab yog hais tias qhov teeb meem no muaj ib qho cuab yeej los rov hais dua, ces peb pom tias nws tsis muaj kev cia siab. Yuav kom hloov txoj kev ntseeg nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau rov qab xav txog qhov teeb meem, kom nrhiav tau ntau yam zoo li qhov ua tau zoo, thiab tag nrho cov neeg tsis zoo yuav raug nug. Koj tuaj yeem rov qab ua tau cov lus zoo, ua kiag ntawm nws. Kev ua si yuav ua haujlwm yog tias koj siv tsawg kawg ib lub hlis rau nws.
- Anchoring. Tus essence yog mus txuas zoo (rau qee cov ntsiab lus tsis zoo) kev xav nrog qee qhov kev ua. Piv txwv li, koj tau siv sijhawm so rau hauv ib lub nroog. Hauv qhov txuas ntxiv, koj yuav xav tau ib yam dab tsi qab ntxiag thiab yog tias qhov no tshwm sim, ces nws yuav zoo dua yog tias thaum koj xav txog qhov chaw no thiab tuaj xyuas koj, koj yuav muaj kev xav zoo tshaj plaws. Yuav siv cov txheej txheem no los siv, koj yuav tsum ua tib zoo xyuas thiab ua kom pom tau tias yog koj xav kawm txog kev ywj pheej. Thaum tau hloov ntawm qhov yuav tsum tau muaj zog, de (stroke, scratch) ntau zaus ib feem ntawm nws lub cev. Ua li no ob peb zaug, kov qhov qub chaw nrog tib lub zog. Tam sim no, thaum twg los tau, thaum twg koj xav ua kom muaj kev xav, kov ib sab ntawm lub cev uas koj tau ua tus tsim. Koj tuaj yeem muab pov tseg xws li "txuas rau" lwm tus neeg.
- Rapport. Nws tshwm sim tau hais tias koj ua tsis tau phooj ywg nrog ib tug neeg, koj nrhiav tsis tau ib qho rau nws. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, koj yuav tsum sim nkag mus nrog nws mus rau hauv kev sib raug zoo, kho rau nws rhythms - qhov no yuav ua pa, posture los yog hais lus. Nrog ua pa thiab tawm suab, txhua yam yog qhov tseeb, tab sis ib qho kev hais lus yuav tsum tau them tshwj xeeb. Qhov tseeb yog cov neeg paub txog lub ntiaj teb nyob ib ncig ntawm lawv: ntau dua lwm tus neeg ntseeg hauv lub rooj sib hais, ib tus neeg pom, lwm tus neeg los yog muaj kev txawj. Koj tuaj yeem txiav txim tau qhov no los ntawm saib cov nqe lus uas tus neeg siv ntau dua, seb nws puas tham txog daim ntawv (xim) ntawm cov khoom, hais txog cov teebmeem suab, txog kev xav lossis nws tus kheej kev paub. Thiab siv cov lus los ntawm tib lub thaiv, uas feem ntau siv los ntawm tus neeg teb xov tooj.
Qhov no tsis yog ntuj rau tag nrho NLP cov tswv yim, tiam sis cov tswv yim no yog tsim rau "dummies", uas yog, pib tshiab. Tom qab koj xav tias dawb nrog cov hom kev kawm theem pib, koj tuaj yeem siv lwm cov NLP tricks los txhim kho koj lub neej.
Tawm NLP
Hais txog txoj kev tswj hwm, nws tsis tuaj yeem hais txog kev sib ntaus sib tua NLP. Nws yog tsim nyog los qhia qhov txawv ntawm ob lub ntsiab lus ntawm lub tswv yim no:
- thawj hom kev siv los pab tib neeg (tub rog thiab pej xeem) tom qab ua tub rog
kev ua; - thiab qhov thib ob yog siv los piav txog kev tiv thaiv ntawm kev hais lus ntawm tus cwj pwm phem ntawm tus neeg teb xov tooj los yog muab siab rau tus yeeb ncuab.
Qee cov ntseeg tias hom thib ob ntawm kev ntaus los ntawm NLP tsis muaj nyob thiab yog kev tsis txaus ntseeg. Tab sis yog tias peb paub txog lub neej ntawm cov hom kev kawm ntawm cov neurolinguistic programming rau cov hom phiaj ntawm kev kho mob hlwb, ces nws txhais tau hais tias muaj lwm hom. Tab sis nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov hais tias nws yog ib qhov tsim nyog siv cov hau kev no nrog kev to taub, kev tsis pom zoo yuav ua tsis tau rau cov kev tshwm sim.