Yog tias koj xav ua tib zoo, koj tuaj yeem txiav txim siab tias nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no, peb lub neej yog kev sib raug zoo. Kev sib raug zoo yog kev ua haujlwm, lag luam, kev sib hlub, kev sib deev, kev lom zem, cov phooj ywg, tsev neeg, thiab lwm yam. Qhov no yog li cas peb nyob thiab sib cuam tshuam rau ib leeg, thiab tom qab tag nrho, thaum peb paub cov kev txawj hauv kev sib raug zoo hauv kev sib raug zoo, nws yuav muaj peev xwm ua kom tau qhov zoo ntawm lub neej zoo.
Nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb, tsheej lab ntawm cov phau ntawv ntawm txoj kev xav ntawm kev sib raug zoo tau raug sau thiab luam tawm. Tiam sis lawv yog qhov phem heev uas lawv tsis ua qhov tseeb, los sis peb tsis muaj peev xwm txhais nws rau hauv kev xyaum sau los ntawm cov kws sau ntawv txawj ntse. Tab sis, txawm li ntawd los, yog qhov ua tau zoo, peb yuav ntseeg tias qee cov ntawv sau tau incorrectly, nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev uas cov lus qhia saum toj no tsuas tsis xav ua raws ...
Peb yuav sim los tsim rau koj ib hom ntawm daim ntawv sau npe zoo tshaj plaws, cov phau ntawv zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev xav ntawm kev xav ntawm tus kheej. Tab sis yog tias phau ntawv tau txais peb cov npe saum toj kawg nkaus, koj yuav raug yuam ua raws li cov lus sau hauv lawv.
Freud yog classic-world class, thiab tseem indecent ...
Cia peb pib nrog cov phau ntawv zoo rau lub tswv yim ntawm kev sib raug zoo, thiab peb tuaj yeem tsis pib nrog tus tswv hauv cheeb tsam no. Freud's book Lub Psychology ntawm Kev Ua Phem yog ib qho teeb meem ntawm cua daj cua dub ntawm Puritan cov teb chaws Europe, thiab hnub no, thaum koj qhia rau lwm tus (leej twg tsis nyeem Freud txhua qhov) uas koj nyiam ua txoj haujlwm ntawm no psychoanalyst, cov ntsiab lus ntawm ib tug neeg sab nrauv tuaj tos koj .
Yes, Freud, ntawm chav kawm, tsim nws tus kheej lub koob meej. Tab sis hauv qhov tseeb ntau qhib lawv nraim "Kuv" vim nws tej hauj lwm. Nyob rau hauv phau ntawv no, qhov tseeb, kev xav ntawm kev sib raug zoo ntawm tus txiv neej thiab poj niam, qhov tshwm sim ntawm bisexualism, nrog rau ntau txoj kev hloov, kev sib luag, taboos ntawm virginity, narcissism, thiab lwm yam.
Tsev kev sib raug zoo nrog koj tus kheej ...
Los ntawm cov phau ntawv niaj hnub no ntawm kev xav ntawm kev sib raug zoo, nws yog qhov tsim nyog los faib phau ntawv qhia tam sim no rau kev tsim ntawm "Kuv" tshiab sau los ntawm American psychologist Tina Siling "Ua koj tus kheej. Cov lus qhia rau cov uas xav tawm lawv lub cim " Phau ntawv no yuav pab tau rau cov ua lag luam pib, cov uas xav nrhiav ib txoj hauv kev tsim cov tswv yim. Hauv ntej, tus sau tau qhia txog lub ntsiab ntawm cov teeb meem tshiab: txhua qhov kev sim yog qhov tshiab, pab qhia txog lawv lub peev xwm .
Rau txhua lub sijhawm ...
Ib qho nrov, peb yuav txawm hais tias kev ntseeg, phau ntawv ntawm txoj kev xav ntawm kev sib raug zoo - "Kev ua si yog cov neeg ua si. Cov neeg ua si uasi . " Qhov tseeb tiag, cov no yog ob phau ntawv, tab sis feem ntau lawv luam tawm hauv cov khoom siv. Tus sau yog Eric Berne , tus founder ntawm transactional tsom. Berne tau qhia peb tus kheej nrog koj ntawm peb yam: "Adult" (weighted, rational reactions), "Niamtxiv" (thaum peb luam cov niamtxiv qhov kev coj) thiab "Me Nyuam" (kev xav, kev lomzem, kev xav tsis zoo). Nyob rau hauv ntau qhov teeb meem ntawm lub neej, peb muaj xws li ib qho ntawm no peb "Kuv yog", thiab Bern nyob rau hauv nws phau ntawv tau piav qhia txog lub neej muaj xwm txheej thiab qhov teeb meem, los daws cov teeb meem no. Yog li ntawd, peb tsis yog ib phau ntawv ntawm kev xav txog kev xav, tiam sis kuj yog ib qho nyiaj pub rau txhua qhov kev siv thib ob.
Peb txhua tus neeg txawv teb chaws tuaj ...
J. Grey tau dhau los ua neeg ntiaj teb muaj npe nrov ua tsaug rau nws phau ntawv "Txiv neej ntawm Mars, Cov poj niam ntawm Venus" .